Ka profesione q\u00eb rrall\u00eb b\u00ebhen tituj kryesor\u00eb, por ato e mbajn\u00eb bot\u00ebn t\u00eb bashkuar n\u00eb heshtje. Kujdesi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prej tyre. Ai jeton n\u00eb momentet e vogla q\u00eb mund t\u00eb mos duken t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme nga jasht\u00eb: nj\u00eb z\u00eb i qet\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, siguri n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje, nj\u00eb dor\u00eb ndihme kur dita \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. K\u00ebto momente nuk k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje – e megjithat\u00eb ato ndryshojn\u00eb jet\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n
Kujdestar\u00ebt hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb ritmin e p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe e transformojn\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb rit\u00ebm t\u00eb sigurt, intim dhe njer\u00ebzor. Ata e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb me k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje, edhe kur forcat e tyre po shterojn\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kujdesi shpesh p\u00ebrshkruhet si nj\u00eb pun\u00eb, por ata q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb e din\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr sesa thjesht nj\u00eb pun\u00eb. K\u00ebrkon forc\u00eb emocionale, si dhe q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri fizike. Durim, empati dhe q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri – dit\u00eb p\u00ebr dit\u00eb. Pas \u00e7do sh\u00ebrbimi fshihet nj\u00eb thirrje zgjimi her\u00ebt n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim i gjat\u00eb ose nj\u00eb zhvendosje nd\u00ebrkufitare. Pas \u00e7do buz\u00ebqeshjeje fshihet nj\u00eb lodhje q\u00eb shpesh nuk shprehet. Dhe pas \u00e7do paqeje q\u00eb u jepni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve fshihet nj\u00eb sakrific\u00eb e heshtur. <\/p>\n\n
Shum\u00eb kujdestar\u00eb i l\u00ebn\u00eb familjet e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm me ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta. Ata humbasin dit\u00ebt e zakonshme, momentet familjare dhe sigurit\u00eb e njohura n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb familje tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb paqe dhe siguri. Kjo distanc\u00eb p\u00ebrmendet rrall\u00eb – por ndihet thell\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n
Ajo q\u00eb e b\u00ebn kujdesin t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm ajo q\u00eb b\u00ebhet, por edhe m\u00ebnyra se si b\u00ebhet. Kujdestar\u00ebt nuk kryejn\u00eb vet\u00ebm detyrat. Ata krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb atmosfer\u00eb. Nj\u00eb ndjesi sht\u00ebpie. Nj\u00eb ndjesi se nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Ata v\u00ebn\u00eb re gj\u00ebrat e vogla. Ata m\u00ebsojn\u00eb zakonet. Ata respektojn\u00eb dinjitetin. Ata sjellin ngroht\u00ebsi n\u00eb hap\u00ebsira q\u00eb p\u00ebrndryshe mund t\u00eb ndiheshin t\u00eb ftohta ose bosh. P\u00ebrmes q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebris\u00eb dhe humanizmit, ata i transformojn\u00eb vendet e panjohura n\u00eb streh\u00eb t\u00eb sigurta. Dhe shpesh e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pa pritur njohje – sepse kujdesi, n\u00eb thelb, ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me dh\u00ebnien. <\/p>\n\n
Kujdesi mbart nj\u00eb pesh\u00eb t\u00eb padukshme. P\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetja e dikujt. Dija se rehatia, siguria dhe mir\u00ebqenia e nj\u00eb personi tjet\u00ebr varen nga ju. Kjo p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi nuk mbaron me fundin e nd\u00ebrrimit. Ajo mbetet n\u00eb mendime, n\u00eb shqet\u00ebsime, n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet q\u00eb lindin natyrsh\u00ebm kur kujdeseni v\u00ebrtet p\u00ebr dik\u00eb. Kjo pun\u00eb emocionale \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Dhe meriton njohje. <\/p>\n\n
Sepse kujdesi nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm me forc\u00ebn \u2013 ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me zemr\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n
Bota shpesh feston aktet madh\u00ebshtore dhe dramatike t\u00eb heroizmit. Por kujdesi na kujton se heroizmi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithashtu i qet\u00eb, p\u00ebrs\u00ebrit\u00ebs dhe thell\u00ebsisht njer\u00ebzor. \u00c7do dit\u00eb, kujdestar\u00ebt b\u00ebjn\u00eb zgjedhje q\u00eb i v\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Ata nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb besim, ofrojn\u00eb stabilitet dhe sjellin paqe n\u00eb momente q\u00eb flasin m\u00eb shum\u00eb se fjal\u00ebt. Dhe nd\u00ebrsa puna e tyre mund t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb pa u v\u00ebn\u00eb re nga shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e paharrueshme p\u00ebr ata, jet\u00ebt e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve ata prekin. <\/p>\n\n
Mir\u00ebnjohja nuk do ta fshij\u00eb lodhjen dhe as nuk do ta shkurtoj\u00eb distanc\u00ebn nga sht\u00ebpia. Por ajo mund t\u00eb njoh\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet. Nderoni sakrific\u00ebn. Dhe t’ju kujtoj\u00eb se puna juaj ka kuptim. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse sot – dhe \u00e7do dit\u00eb – ndalemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb faleminderit. <\/p>\n\n
Faleminderit p\u00ebr m\u00ebngjeset e hershme dhe dit\u00ebt e gjata.
Pre ka\u017ed\u00fd \u017eivot, ktor\u00e9ho sa dotknete, m\u00e1 va\u0161a pr\u00e1ca skuto\u010dn\u00fd v\u00fdznam.
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Pas \u00e7do m\u00ebngjesi dhe mbr\u00ebmjeje t\u00eb qet\u00eb, fshihet dikush q\u00eb ka zgjedhur t\u00eb kujdeset. Kujdestar\u00ebt mbajn\u00eb mbi vete p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi si fizike ashtu edhe emocionale me durim dhe humaniz\u00ebm. Puna e tyre shpesh zhvillohet larg sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, por krijon nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb sigurie p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Kjo trash\u00ebgimi u p\u00ebrket atyre, puna e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve shihet pak, por ndihet thell\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":370072,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[439,481,493],"tags":[],"acf":{"facebookpost":"Jo \u00e7do hero mban pelerin\u00eb \ud83d\udc99\n Disa zgjohen n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb \u200b\u200b\u23f0, mbajn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00ebdha \ud83d\udcaa dhe krijojn\u00eb ngroht\u00ebsi aty ku nevojitet m\u00eb shum\u00eb \ud83c\udfe1\n P\u00ebr \u00e7do kujdestar q\u00eb ia kushton zemr\u00ebn pun\u00ebs s\u00eb tij: faleminderit \ud83d\ude4f\u2728","popis_socialneho_obrazku":"Faleminderit heronjve t\u00eb p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm!"},"yoast_head":"\n