As people get older, they may want to maintain independence and control over their lives. Sometimes, however, the desire to be independent can cloud their judgement. This leads to them not realising or accepting the fact that they need help, which can lead to stubbornness. Multiple health problems increase the likelihood that seniors will refuse help. These include cognitive disorders such as dementia, vision problems, hearing loss and Arthritis. Such conditions can cause seniors to overestimate their abilities to handle everyday tasks on their own.

Effective communication

Proper communication is the key to helping seniors accept help. Here are some tips:

  • Choose the right time: talk when the senior feels relaxed and is not distracted.
  • Be respectful: Acknowledge their feelings and desire to remain independent.
  • Use clear language: speak clearly and directly. Avoid complex sentences or words that could confuse them.
  • Listen actively: Show that you are listening by nodding and repeating what you hear to make sure you understand.

Involving seniors in decision-making

Involving seniors in decisions about their care helps them feel respected and in control. This is how you can achieve it:

  • Offer choice: Instead of making decisions for them, offer them options. Whether it’s choosing a caregiver or the type of help they need, let them have the final say.
  • Explain the benefits: help them understand how help can improve their quality of life. For example, a carer can help them keep up their hobbies and social life.

Adjusting the home environment

Making small changes in the home can help seniors more readily accept help. Consider the following adjustments:

  • Safety first: Install grab bars in the bathroom, non-slip mats in slippery areas and good lighting throughout the house.
  • Accessibility: arrange furniture to create clear walkways and place daily necessities within easy reach.

Promoting social interaction

Loneliness can cause seniors to refuse help because they feel isolated. Encouraging social interaction can change that. Here are a few ways:

  • Social activities: help them find local events or clubs that match their interests.
  • Technologies for contactA: Teach them to use technology to stay in touch with family and friends.

Why Atena is the best choice

At Atena , we understand the challenges that ageing brings. Our approach respects the dignity and independence of every senior. We offer personalised services that adapt to individual needs and help seniors not only receive help, but thrive. Trust Atena to provide compassionate and competent care that will enrich the lives of your loved ones. Visit our website or contact us today to learn more about how we can help you and your family.